by sarah » 02 Jun 2012, 22:04
Hi, I was diagnosed when I was pregnant. I mentioned on my medical history form that I had a four year history of kidney stones and I got this lovely 'mad professor' endocrinologist who decided to make me his pet project. He instantly knew what was wrong with me however my bloods were not giving him the answers he wanted. He persevered as he was positive that he was right and did weekly bloods until finally a few weeks in there was a very slight fluctuation in the results. He got me a scan and it showed I had 2 tumours. They operated on me at 30 weeks pregnant, removed both affected parathyroids and put metal clips on the others so that they could be easily located in the future. They were really concerned about operating at the right time as they said it could bring on labour so they couldn't do it too early but didn't want to leave it too late as it would have meant that the baby could have had problems in that her body wouldn't have been able to regulate it's own calcium, she would have suffered fits and had to take calcium and vit d for her entire life. The operation went well, I was still pregnant when I woke up and Isabelle is now nearly 6 and thankfully is fine. I noticed an instant change in myself and things I had just learnt to live with and not really taken much notice of such as nausea at night time, dizzyness in the morning, itchy shins, frequent trips to the loo and the most weird one of all, whenever I ate cheese all the hairs on my arms would stand up, I would get goosebumps and I would sweat profusely at the back of my neck and on my arms, all of those things stopped almost immediately. My Mum also says I became less irritable. I never even realised they were symptoms until I looked back. Then a few months later came another kidney stone and so it continued. I was referred back to the endocrinologist who didn't even have the decency to see me himself but just got one of his trainees to tell me that he had cured me and they must just be residual stones. Each time a stone came I went back to the doctors and was finally referred to a urologist who wasn't interested in why they were there he was just interested in getting them out and booked me in for lithotripsy, by this time Isabelle was nearly 3 and I had a 3 month old baby boy. The lithotripsy didn't actually break down the largest stone I had but seems to just put cracks in it, which in effect just made it bigger and it took me four months of agony, diclofenac, paracetamol and codeine (which causes the worst constipation in the world and also doesn't really want you to stop taking it when the time comes that you don't need it anymore, deciding instead to leave you with crippling withdrawal headaches and insomnia for a few weeks) and feeling like the most useless mummy ever before I finally passed it. I was scanned and told that my kidney (always the left one, have never had a stone in the right one) was finally free from stones and it felt great to know that it was all finally over, 8 years of it finally finished, until another one came, allegedly one that the scan must have missed, and then another and another! This time the doctor tested my bloods which he said were fine and told me that I should try a low oxolate diet as this is what could be causing the stones! I looked at the list of foods, hardly any of which I actually eat and felt completely let down. I tried to explain that the endocrinologist had needed to test my calcium and pth levels weekly for a few weeks before he had found any evidence but he just told me to try the diet so I went away, tired from all of it and feeling like I was banging my head against a brick wall. It is apparently extremely unusual for women to have this condition so would it not be a miracle to have been cured and then have something else start to cause stones made up in exactly the same way as the old ones!!!!! A year passed and I appeared to be stone free, although the cheese thing has started again, the night nausea, frequent need to pee and itchy shins, all of them nowhere near as bad or as frequent as they were before but they have returned nonetheless. Then 6 weeks ago I passed a stone out of the blue, no renal colic, just went to bed feeling like I may have cystitis and passed it when I woke up in the morning and then 2 days later my urine looked like pure blood and then the renal colic started and the diclofenac, paracetamol and codeine got brought out from the back of the cupboard and am still waiting to pass it. This time I am not letting things lie and am not going to be fobbed off. They wouldn't have put metal clips on my remaining parathyroids so that they could easily be found in the future if there wasn't a possibility that they could go wrong. I thank the endocrinologist for being so fantastic in diagnosing me initially and ensuring my beautiful daughter was born healthily but I think he was extremely arrogant to get someone to tell me I was cured and just dismiss me like that. I had my bloods done on thursday and a kidney scan on friday which revealed that my left kidney is full of stones and calcified. I am due to go to the doctors at the end of the week to get the results and I am sure that they will say that my pth and calcium levels are fine. This time I am going to insist on weekly blood tests and a vit d test as I am not sure if they have done that one or not. Sorry, I appear to have written an essay. I hope no-one has dropped off whilst reading! It feels good to have got it all off my chest to people who understand. Thank you x