Well to borrow one of your words, I feel that I have been "fobbed off" to some extent by a friend. After making the comment that I feel as though time is running out she just said I shouldn't be thinking like that. I do feel that time is running out. I am feeling sicker and sicker. I don't see it turning around unless I have surgery.
With me, my calcium levels haven't been extremely high but the PTH levels just keep going up and up. It started out at 49 12 mths ago and then it went to 62, 72 and then 100.
A scan has not revealed anything yet. I have read that if there is multi gland disease, or a cyst it may not show up on a scan.
I just don't think that discounting someone's concerns is a good thing. I will have to remember in the future not to do this to someone,